My friend and fellow evangelist, Scott Smith from TN shared with me this story below that really ministered to me. My prayer is that it will bless you.
Overseas, a well known musician dazzled an audience for over an hour in the palm of his hand as he performed near perfection. When he was done, the packed auditorium arose to their feet with thunderous applause offering him a standing ovation that lasted another six minutes. It is proper protocol after receiving such praise that the one on stage give a bow to return the thanks for the gracious response. Looking more like a “deer in the headlights” opposed to an entertainer who just dominated a performance the crowd went from cheering him to jeering him with boo’s, negative remarks and even stooped so low as to throw objects at him on stage.
The musician searched almost frantically towards the balcony scanning anyone and everyone hoping to put his eyes on one person he hoped would be in attendance. The lights were so bright that it was almost impossible for him to see those seated in the balcony but despite the insults and barrage of bottles thrown his way he finally found who he was looking for. His mentor and the Master Conductor was in the house to witness his performance and to his delight he was actually applauding.
For the musician, it was not that he was arrogant or aloof towards the crowds initial clapping and their appreciation of his art. All that mattered to him was what did his mentor, Master and Musical Legend think. One can have the approval of a “crowd” but if Christ is not pleased we are failing, losing out and going through the motions. Worse, we are spinning our wheels as if riding a bicycle without a chain. Jesus said: “Some folks have already received their reward for their much speaking, praying loud and long or publicly preaching with wrong motives.”
All of us long for attention, acceptance and approval. One mistake many make (even ministers in ministry) buy the lie that crowds equal success. Often quite the contrary. As my brother from another mother, Dr Ergun Caner recently reminded me in Louisville, KY that “big crowds” don’t mean a strong church. This applies to youth pastors, senior pastors, church planters, missionaries, Sunday School teachers and all those who desire daily to live for the Lord.
The late, great Dr Adrian Rogers said: “God never asked us to fill the auditorium but fill the pulpit.” Success is in Christ and Him alone. Today, may we pause as Christians, clergy and kids of the King and take an inventory of where we are at in our walk with God. The Bible is clear: “If God be for you - who can be against you?” I would much rather be a minority with the Lord than a majority with the world. Leadership is lonely, critics can be cruel, denominations debate and divide over details but learn to block out the crowd, tune out the negativity, gaze towards God, set your sights on the Savior and look to the Lord because it matters most what the Almighty thinks of you.
It’s always about the audience of One and because He loved us enough to celebrate us in His death may we live for him with our life as an act of adoration and applause. Since childhood, I wanted to be like the lone leper who came back to say “thank you” to the Lord for healing him, helping him and bringing Heaven to his world. All ten were touched by the Master but only one came back to say “thanks.” Yes, Christ cheers us on but I want to be one of the faithful few who cheer Him on. No longer tempted to “sell out” but stand up, not build a church but help expand His Kingdom, not for a platform but the assurance that the cross of Christ is more relevant than ever, souls still need saving and that only Jesus is worthy or our worship. He made much of us - let us make much of Him.
The above picture has been heralded by the National Archives as the most requested photo annually for purchase (even more than the Bill of Rights or the Constitution). It was taken on December 21, 1970, in the Oval Office when Elvis Presley at the zenith of his career corresponded with the Commander-in-Chief, Richard M. Nixon for a visit.
In my personal collection, I have a picture in color of this classic clip. Keep in mind that President Nixon was not only “conservative in politics” but a Quaker in faith. Elvis and his entourage showed up at 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue adorning jewelry, packing heat (gun) and rolled into town like they owned the place. Elvis was extremely respectful of the Presidency and it appeared that Nixon was smitten with Presley. Elvis (you cannot tell in the black and white picture) was wearing a purple - that is right - PURPLE suit with silk, white collar shirt, 14K gold belt and a purple cape that would have made Prince, Barney and Batman proud.
Standing in the seat of power in the Oval Office, President Nixon stared Elvis’ outfit up and down and couldn’t quite figure out what to do or say with his visiting citizen from the South. The conservative Nixon said to the flamboyant Presley: “That is quite an outfit you got there.” Without missing a beat, Elvis in his trademark smile and southern charm said: “Sir, you got your show and I got mine.” The crowd laughed and once again Elvis made his mark and point.
The morale of the story is that God has equipped and gifted us all differently. We all have gifts that can help further the Kingdom of God. For those that believe that Christ is the Son of God, born of a virgin, lived a perfect life, died on the cross as our Substitute, arose on the third day, conquered sin, death and the grave and is coming back as the only Savior to Heaven it is imperative that we push aside our differences and unite to serve as soldiers in the Lord’s Army. Regardless if one group speaks in tongues, the other places an emphasis on healings, worships on Saturday or Sunday (or both), etc. Keep in mind that some of the other denominational differences we differ on pale in comparison when we realize we are kids of the King, heirs to Him and a child of the Living God. We may wear different uniforms but as blood, bought believers we are saved by grace and have a home in Heaven; therefore, playing on the same team regardless if in different stadiums.
Make no mistake - I am not implying that one can get to Heaven outside of Christ. Jesus is The only Way to Heaven and it’s because of His death on Calvary’s cruel cross and confessing our sins by faith is the only hope we have for Heaven. What Elvis was suggesting was actually more Scriptural than comical. We all have gifts and we should invest them and implement them even if they are slightly different than our worship preferences. The Bible notes: “Whatever your hand finds to do - do it for God’s glory.” Regardless, if you are a mechanic - change carburetors for Christ. If you are a dentist - do root canals for the Redeemer. If you are a teacher - strengthen students scholastically for the Savior. Nixon was a politician and Elvis was an entertainer but the key is to use our talents for the Lord’s service and glory.
God is watching and the world is waiting and may we give the Lord a good show. More than for the applause of man but a life of worship worthy of our great God & King (Jesus). In closing, you “got your show” and I got mine but together lets serve the Savior like never before. After all, if you are a sinner saved by grace - we are not only on the winning team (but the same team). As Elvis would say: “Thank ya, thank you very much!” However, what we can all say: “Thank you Jesus!”
It was my pleasure to preach at a “CASTING CROWNS” concert in 2005, in Manassas, Virginia at a large church. It was a Youth Evangelism Rally and Duffy Robbins and I, were the two invited guests and I had the pleasure to preach both Friday night at the CC Concert and Saturday morning on the main stage for discipleship. One of the joys before and after the Casting Crowns show was to hang out with Andy Williams - former drummer to Grammy/Dove & recently named “Group of the Year” - Casting Crowns.
He is POWERFUL on stage but super personable off stage. We had a blast talking in the tunnel prior to the show and it was wild eating in the “Green Room” with lead singer, Mark Hall, Andy Williams and the band prior to the concert. We had two hours to kill before the doors opened and ironically an indoor basketball court was adjacent to the auditorium. Someone suggested we play a pick up game of basketball. Since I was the speaker they graciously invited me to play hoops with them. It will remain one of the wildest memories that I will hold dear for life being able to play 3 on 3 with Casting Crowns.
The good news is it was a ton of fun. The bad news was I was wearing jeans and dress shoes while playing. Its hard to do a finger roll or hit a three pointer without tennis shoes but it was a blast none the less. About two months ago on my radio show “FRANKLY SPEAKING” I had the pleasure to re-connect with Andy and he was a “call in” guest and talked about his recent transition from CC to start a new group with his wife and a few friends called SOUL SISTER SALLY.
Friends, you talk about faith - he left the security, stability and stage of Casting Crowns to start a new group “by faith.” What is super cool is that Andy heard God say “go” so he was gone. You have to check out their website www.SoulSisterSally.com and you can hear their NEW single “Destined to Survive” below - IT IS AMAZING and you can hear it here first.
That radio interview will be released on a future blog post here soon. In the interim, enjoy the recent video that we taped in June 2009, while I was in town preaching in Georgia at two churches. Andy and his lovely bride and son were gracious to hang out with me and grab lunch. They are INCREDIBLE and please share some love and give them a SHOUT OUT and let them know you wish them well as they follow God’s call. If you are a pastor or youth leader - PRAY about bringing them to your church in near future. You will not be dissapointed.
“Destined To Survive” - http://www.soulsistersally.com/destined/player/player1.htm
FRANK TV - Bringing the Word to the world
On one program I was asked: “Frank, what is the greatest cancer in Christianity and in ministry?” That is a great question and I had never been asked that before. Since it was a subject I wasn’t prepped nor prepared for the Holy Spirit gave me a word. With the whole world watching I replied as cool as a cucumber: “If you had asked me 20 years ago I would have replied either infidelity or immorality but today I would have to say “INSECURITY.” The host said: “Please explain.” I shared with him: “Sadly, I am afraid that professional jealousy is killing us because we are so busy criticizing and competing with the “saved” minister and ministry next door that we have taken our eyes off the “lost” and we are all losing for it.” Ironically, I got a standing ovation from the studio audience. Go God!
It had been brewing in me for a couple years but God enabled me to strike a chord and perhaps light a match that many when they take their ministerial masks off realize I am not only right but we need a revival desperately among the leadership of the Church. It is a fact, if we will ever see the Lord and witness the revival that so many say we long for we need to die to self, live for the Lord and implement the gifts of others even at our own expense. It is imperative that we are mindful that our “success” is found not in our performance but Christ’s acceptance of us.
Too many are in ministry today and view it as a “career” and not a “calling.” Those that have a career have a job but the calling brings JOY! For those employed with a career are fearful that someone could be smarter, stronger and more successful among the saints. Those empowered by Christ and His call are free to promote others without worrying about losing ground, face or their job!
Before I go further, I want to remind readers that this post is not to blast all pastors but carefully warn of the dangers when we are not being Spirit-led and let insecurity hinder us from helping grow God’s Kingdom. Just like one “bad” cop, teacher or politician doesn’t mean that all in that line of work are guilty. Pastors are some of the finest folks that I know, but after criss-crossing the Country the past two decades and being in literally hundreds of churches and meeting multiplied thousands of pastoral staff; I am just reporting in love but boldness too many are afraid of someone else sharing their God given gift to bless the church where they serve. My dear friend, Dr Herbert Fitzpatrick and my home Pastor Marvin Harris are two of the pastors who have constantly brought in powerful preachers and gifted artists and our church was better for it. They both opened up a whole new world for me to learn from gifted orators, sold-out servants to the Savior and I wanted to become what they brought to the table to minister to the masses.
Some preachers (youth ministers included) are tempted to think if I bring one of these people to minister they may like them more than me. That is both an honest thought and its because we are all human. But the more we love and live for God we must constantly be willing to die to self so we can be ALIVE in Christ. This is the heartbeat of this entire post (not to destroy pastors) but to expose the cancer of envy, jealousy and insecurity prevalent in our congregations. When Pastor Fitzpatrick (who serves on Board of Advisors of Liberty University) and Pastor Marvin Harris brought in tons of talent over the years, I am sure one or two members had the audacity to say: “Preacher, why don’t you preach like so and so.” Even in joking, those comments should not be stated personally or privately. But the remaining 99% members held them in higher regard not only because they contacted them but connected to bring them to our country church. When we utilize the talents, wisdom, gifts and personalities of others the Body of Christ runs more effectively and on all cylinders.
For far too long, the Body of Christ has been so shackled with our own flesh that we have almost ceased to “fight the good fight of faith.” It was wisely said: “If you are the sharpest or smartest person in your group. YOU NEED A NEW GROUP - or at least re-GROUP.” Leadership can be both lovely and lonely. However, true leadership surrounds self with spirit-led and more successful, senior saints without feeling threatened by folks with way more talent, drive and wisdom. It is true in politics, business, sports and almost every arena in life. However, what is heart breaking is the lack of leadership in the Christian Church. Many in ministry not only “wound their own” but try to hinder folks from growing to the next level with the Lord (yet, they call themselves “life coaches.” How about we get back to being preachers of the Most High God.
This will ruffle the feathers of some but it is true: “If the shoe fits wear it.” God didn’t call me to a popularity contest - I won that back in grade school. The stakes are higher here (Hell is real) and because I was blessed early on to reach certain heights personally, professionally and even with popularity; I can risk and even relish in the fact that the truth is more important than playing it safe, being “politically correct” or complacent, comforming and casually committed when Christ called us to be a champion, courageous and confident.
This is where I start sounding like Andy Rooney from “60 Minutes.” He is famous for noting: “Have you ever noticed……….” Honestly, I have witnessed a sad trend in ministry the past two decades I have been preaching the Gospel. We have gone from complimenting and completing one another to competing with the clergy, church or conference down the street. How tragic - how true. Secondly, I have noticed that those preachers who are very “terriritorial” of the pulpit are nine times out of ten not very dynamic speakers themselves. What is worse, I have witnessed on countless occassions that when they finally elect to bring a speaker in the one selected is not as “gifted” as the preacher normally in the pulpit. That is not saying much. We buy books, attend conferences and say sound bytes: “That it’s ALL ABOUT HIM” but apparently its not when push comes to shove because we don’t want to share the spotlight or should I say “SON light” with others. Friends, this is not arrogant just an accurate statement.
Years ago, I was told that many ministers were afraid to allow other speakers in who may differ in theology, etc. Today, I don’t believe that is the issue at hand as much as insecurity in the ministry. This is not due to theology but “fear-ology.” At this juncture I can already hear some senior pastors try to insert “economics” for not bringing in more gifted artists, speakers or evangelists. Actually, it is not a ecomonical problem as it is an egotistical issue.
Over the years, I cannot tell you how many times that I have encountered friends inviting me to speak at their church only to hear their pastor to say: “I am sorry, we are in the middle of a ten week sermon series and cannot afford to break it. Perhaps another time.” That is unfortunate. This happens not just to me but most of my friends who have been gifted as some of the most powerful preachers on the planet.” After taking one too many “leadership courses” on how to distance themselves from their church members the pastor prides self on making a “executive decision.” This is “leadership lacking” to lead the church they are entrusted to grow to the next level.
When I played basketball growing up, I was tempted to play with folks my own age and dominate. After being invited to a select basketball camp where NCAA Division 1 coaches taught us while I was in high school, we were implored and instructed to play ball with folks three and four years older than us. Yes, it was tiring, exhausting and we lost more games than we won. However, when we got back and played hoops with those our own age, we realized that we were quicker, faster and were playing at another level. It has been said: “Who you hang out with is what you become.”
Ten years ago, I was on staff at one of the fastest growing churches in my convention and the pastor went on vacation for two weeks. It was my honor to preach both weeks and while I was in the pulpit I bragged on the Lord and complimented our pastor while he was away. When he returned no less than a dozen people deep waited outside of his door to say: “My goodness - you need to go on vacation more often to let Frank speak.” Honestly, I wish they didn’t quite use those terms but the fact is they meant it as a compliment for me but he took it as a swipe at him. The last year and a half on staff, I was never allowed to preach again. Why? Jealousy and insecurity.
In March 2009, I had Evangelist Rick Stanley (stepbrother to the late ELVIS PRESLEY) in my car and had him preach a revival in my hometown for three days. As I dropped him off at the airport in Washington, DC after a fun-filled couple days as he exited my car he said: “Frank, do you know the one thing a preacher will not forgive you for?” Thoughts ran through my head and I began to guess and name ideas: “Perhaps, alcohol, drugs, pre-marital sex, adultery, poor preaching, over-eating, bad breath, etc.” He said without blinking and pointed his figure toward my face: “Frank, they will not forgive you if you are more successful than them.” I was stunned and Rick was right.
Friends, regardless of your vocation may we all celebrate the credentials of others. Like my last post, be an “EAGLE” not an ostrich when it comes to dealing with others with more charisma, clout, class and competence. Daily, I pray to honor God, bless other people and surround myself with folks with way more talent. Be better not “bitter” when you cross paths with new friends and fellow servants.
The Body of Christ resembles the human hand. We have prophets, evangelists, apostles, pastors, psalmists, etc. In high school, I could throw a football 47 yards with a tight spiral. Not bad for a 17 year old teen! However, if I cut off one finger I would immediately lose my grip and you could automatically knock off at least 20 yards from my next throw. We need each other (all the gifts of God in the Church today - especially, in these dark, difficult days) and when we let fear hinder us from bringing in someone special with a God given gift we not only “quinch the Holy Spririt” but its like going to war and leaving the Special Ops unit at home. This not only grieves God, despairs Deity and anguishes the Almighty but we cease to live and begin to exist in building the Kingdom of God. We go from soldiers to spectators. That is demotion not promotion.
Without question, scores will have to give a long account to God when we stand before Him in Glory because we let pride, ego and insecurity hinder us from steering His sheep to greener pastures. In closing, I would like to encourage all pastors and youth ministers to bring in speakers and singers with a heart for God and talent. Celebrate them - do not tolerate them. Let God use them to bless your people. Trust me, we will all be better for it. Lets extract the cancer from the Church in the illness of insecurity and then and only then can we really do service for our Savior while working together to build His Kingdom not our church. It’s all His anyways. Let’s be about His Destiny not our dynasty.
Don't be an Ostrich
God gave me a word and we coined a phrase: “The Greats are Gracious.” I have found that folks who have done something with their life are often both accessible and approachable. Winners are wonderful - its the wannabees you have to WATCH OUT for. LOL In politics - politicians talk about “leaving no child behind” but I believe we should leave no adult behind either who is willing to work, play by the rules, roll up their sleeves and pay the price to help grow and go to the next level in life and with the Lord.
Yes, by God’s grace we have come a long way in society. Years past, sadly, scores of folks would stoop low and play “the race card” when threatened, felt inferior or had their back to the wall in the presence of someone with more clout or class. Unfortunately, we let “fear” hinder us from growing as friends despite our different skin color. The irony is we both bled red. Praise God we are not where we used to be regarding race relations but today we are distancing ourselves just the same from insecurity, pride and fear of the unknown in other arenas. Not so much in skin tone but afraid of those more talented and successful than self. This is true in every career (perhaps because we are all too human) but it is unfortunately, still very prevalent in ministry circles. This should not be.
Sadly, countless clergy and youth leaders resemble an ostrich when God destined us to soar like eagles. An Ostrich wants to play it safe, is grounded and feels secure when sticking their head in the ground when more talented folks come to town. Eagles are not large but they are powerful. They are not satisfied being sidelined in the sand. However, they are “grounded” knowing who they are and where they came from and what they are capable of but they don’t stick their head in the sand but soar to the sky with their Savior for success, strength and satisfaction.
At least in the “secular” world folks want to know what the competition is. Too many in ministry, rather take a “nose dive” opposed to get on the High Dive and learn from the “big boys” and swim with the sharks. Friends, who you hang out with is what you become. The cartoon analogy of an ostrich resembles the remark: “Out of sight out of mind.” Too many folks want to win in their small sphere of influence but the entire group suffers (not succeed) when we cease to expose ourselves with winners.
We want to throw an “arrogant card” at someone who has accomplished some “success” in their ministry opposed to humbly willing to reach out, extend an invite and grow as friends and learning from their experience. It was “pride” that got Satan kicked out of Heaven and too many in ministry are just as guilty. This is a bold statement but true - in life, both in secular and spiritual matters folks (even ministers) are great at promoting the Lord but fail at promoting others. Why? They are afraid that someone else may be more gifted, talented and likeable than themselves. Ouch!
It has been said: “If you are the sharpest person in your group - you need to get a new group.” We will only be as good as the people we surround ourselves with. It is true - if you always do what you always did you will always get what you always got. I will post more on this subject soon but to be brief I will give you a tease for the next topic: Insecurity is one of the greatest cancers in Christianity today. We have more of a FEAROLGY than theology problem. My prayer for all folks (especially those whom aspire to live for the Lord, become leaders and make their life at bat count) is that they will risk “picking the brains” of others who have gone before, sit at the table with folks ten times more talented than you and be willing to temporaily feel like losing when you realize the wealth of talent across the table from you but then go apply it in your life.
Here is the liberating part: We don’t have to be better than anyone. However, we should all be better because our paths cross with others. It is not about “competing” with others but help completing each other and learning to compliment others as the Body of Christ. Remember this, an ostrich will never grow in grace nor become better when its head is implanted in indifference or insecurity. Eagles will always tower to new heights because they don’t get down in the sand but get UP in the sky. May we all in leadership aspire to resemble the eagle in our every day lives.
This month marks the 30th anniversary of my accepting Jesus as my Lord & Savior. Outside of prayer and reading God’s Word daily and applying it to my life (outside of God’s great grace) I believe “PERSEVERANCE” has aided me more in my walk with Christ than any other element.
Christianity is not a spectator’s sport and you will encounter various trials, temptations and tough times. The first recorded interview I had the privilege to host on my radio show “FRANKLY SPEAKING” on American Family Radio was my friend, TAMMY TRENT. When I think of Christianity, class and composure I think of TT. Her story is simply AMAZING and she has endured more in her life than most would in five life times.
She is a Christian recording artist, author, dancer, tours with WOMEN OF FAITH and on 9-11, she and her husband, Trent were vacationing overseas on a missions trip. The very day America was crumbling back home, Tammy’s life began to crumble abroad when she got word that her husband had died scuba-diving. All flights were cancelled to USA and phone lines were down. Her husband was dead, she couldn’t reach her family and she felt like a “woman without a Country.”
Listen to Tammy share her tragic yet triumphant story through tears, laughter and despite the pain she still sings and dances for her Savior. In a world of cubic zirconia’s - she is the genuine article. Listen to the audio clip of our interview and may it bless you like she has me and many others. Tammy is a testament that God uses not only the “blessed” but the broken. Those that have been hurt the deepest are the very folks that God uses the greatest to bring hope, healing and Heaven to those hurting and far from Jesus.
God bless you and God bless Tammy Trent.
Brandywine Bible Church - 2009
Who says “You can’t go back home.” Today, was a real treat for me in my journey with Jesus. It was 30 years ago this month, July 1979 at Brandywine Bible Church that at age seven, I accepted Christ as my Lord & Savior. It was during our Vacation Bible School and I recall the teacher inviting us to receive Jesus into our hearts at the conclusion of the evening message. No one dared moved but the Holy Spirit was tugging at my heart.
Without question, I am sure that I thought every thought that most folks think when deciding to embrace the Lord. What if my friends make fun of me? What if no one wants to be my friend? What if I am the only one to go forward?
After pondering what Jesus did and died for me I elected that I was going to follow Christ. I was the first one forward and then and there I cared more what God in Heaven thought of me than what my friends on earth would think. Two little girls followed me that July evening also trusting the Lord as their personal Savior. What a journey it has been the past three decades. Honestly, I am surprised that I am still alive. Since childhood, I always thought I would live a short life. The Bible tells us to “redeem the time” and by God’s grace, I have done my best to walk and talk with Him.
The Lord has blessed me beyond my wildest dreams and I have attempted to honor Him and He has certainly honored me. God made much of me in His death and I wanted to make much of Him with my life. When it wasn’t “cool” to live for the Lord in grade school, God enabled me to cling to Him and He catapulted me. The Bible says: “Jesus found favor in the eyes of God and man.” That verse always intrigued me and encouraged me to give my all for the Lord.
The Lord promoted me to be picked my peers to be President of the Student Council in junior high at a public school winning 701 out of 800 votes. Even as a child, I walked the hallways as Jesus would and my prayer was then that friends would see Jesus in me. In high school, when most were tempted to sit out, God allowed me to stand up and live for the Lord. While in high school, I was blessed to play three years on the high school men’s basketball team. The highlight for me was despite abstaining from sex, alcohol, drugs and deviant behavior I was crowned “PROM KING” out of 1,200 peers my senior year. Without question, when we promote the Lord - He will promote us. The truth is when I was faithless - God was faithful.
God’s grace is unmerited favor and it is because of His rich, red blood that was shed for my sin is the sole reason why I and mankind could become a child of God and an heir to Him. My life (outside of Christ) is as “filthy rags” and apart from Christ I can do nothing, am nothing and worthless. The only good in me is Jesus. The word “GRACE” means “God’s Riches At Christ’s Expense.” This past year, I was blessed to preach over 200 plus times in nearly 20 states and three countries. However, it was such a privilege to worship with my family today and return to the small, country church (Brandywine Bible Church in Southern Maryland) I trusted Christ as Savior three decades ago this month and preach the morning worship service. My message? Commitment and “Giving God All We Got.”
To come full circle is another reminder of God’s grace and that my Lord is truly the “Author & Finisher” of our faith. What a joy to reunite with precious friends and family from years past. The picture below is my family with longtime family friends, Mr & Mrs Charles Brewer. All these years later they are still faithful to the Lord and the little country church that helped us grow in grace.
Dr. E.G. Jack was my pastor and he served faithfully for over 25 years at Brandywine Bible Church before retiring two years ago. He will always have a special place in my heart. Pastor Jack never had the pleasure to preach in massive mega-churches but when I think of giant’s of the Gospel; he is one of the men I think of. The Bible is clear: “Many who are first will be last. Many who are last will be first.” Pastor Jack didn’t speak to crowds but certainly loved Christ. Just last month, I had the high honor to meet Joyce Rogers, wife of the late great Dr. Adrian Rogers. He was former President of the Southern Baptist Convention and I will post of video of Mrs. Rogers and I, together soon. Her husband was also pastor of the beautiful Bellvue Baptist Church in Memphis, TN with over 20,000 members. Dr Rogers said in a sermon: “God never called us as ministers to fill the auditorium but fill the pulpit.” How true.
Over the years, I was blessed by the ministry of Dr Jack and countless others that God has used to help me mature in the Christian walk. Without question, I have been blessed by their love and labors while standing on their shoulders to bring the Word to the world. Over the years, God has opened some amazing doors that I have been both honored and humbled to walk through. But it comes back to not my merits but my Messiah’s mercy and God’s great grace.
Daily, I thank God for parents who took me to church. Who insisted we attend when we didn’t feel like going and I am eternally grateful for the local church (like my home church) that despite not being rich in finances were rich in faith loving the Lord, serving the Savior and helping humanity any way humanly possible. Thank God for Brandywine Bible Church and churches like them around the Globe who still preach Christ crucified and coming again!
It has been the greatest honor of my life loving the Lord and serving the Savior these three decades. Time sure does fly by. My only regret is that I didn’t start serving Him more before the age of seven. Praise the Lord that with God’s great grace “you can still come home.”
Thank you Jesus!
Jesus - The KING OF ALL KINGS
The truth about these iconic individuals is that they were and are mere men. Not Divinity nor Deity but mere mortals with as many problems privately as they achieved success professionally. Most dazzled “on stage” but most tragically fizzled off stage. Without question, I love to celebrate the success of others as much as possible but the fact is only Jesus Christ - “The King of ALL Kings” is truly deserving of the title “King.”
Jesus is King of the Ages, King of ALL and He was Divinity yet became humanity. He was Savior but became servant. He was accustomed to Royal Robes in Heaven but was willing to wear my ripped rags on Earth. He was from Beulah Land but came to Bethlehem to be the “bruised and battered Lamb that taketh away the sins of the world.” He wore a studded crown in Heaven but wore our splintered cross on Earth. He was born in a wooden crib but died on a wooden cross and the irony is He taught us how to live but we in our sin taught him to die. He left His throne in Glory to inherit a crown of thorns in His gory beating and because of His temporal death we could inherit eternal life for those trusting Him as our Sacrifice, Substitute and Savior.
God has convicted me to remember who the real “King” is and when Michael’s brothers escorted his gold plated casket adorning the white sequin gloves the music in the background was the church classic penned by Andrae Crouch: “Soon and Very Soon - We are Going to See the King.” That message had a double meaning for the 18,000 packed in the Staples Center. The crowd was getting ready to see their “king” but my prayer during that wonderful memorial was I prayed that Michael was ready and the 1 Billion watching via television that we are all ready to stand before King Jesus - The King of ALL Kings! This video below is one of the greatest clips of all time. Friends, if this doesn’t light your fire - your wood is wet! I love that quote: “No King but King Jesus.”
Frank's parents 40th Wedding Anniv
Yesterday, family and friends reunited to celebrate both ocassions at the beautiful Gaylord Hotel at National Harbor just outside of Washington, DC. My two sibling and I, made reservations for Dad & Mom to stay two nights at the luxurious hotel and we took a water taxi to Old Town Alexandria, Virginia and ate at the renown Chart House for delicious steak and seafood. From there we returned back by boat and watched the gorgeous fireworks shoot over the National Mall in the distance and came back to the hotel for a slice of the world famous Smith Island ten layer cake.
What makes my parents wedding anniversary so special is that very few couples reach that milestone anymore. In a world where couples are tempted to cut corners, think of self, compromise for temporal pleasures and bombarded with images, movies and negative messages from “friends” to do what satisfies “you” it is rare to see folks marry for better or worse and actually for good. As an ordained minister, I have officiated over 130 weddings in the past ten years and I have learned a very disturbing trend. Those that spend the most on their wedding usually have the shortest marriages. Countless times, I have noticed folks spend tens of thousands of dollars on their wedding but not a dime on their marriage.
Looking back, my Dad gave my mother a simple, small diamond ring on July 5, 1969. No bling but from a loving heart. The irony is their commitment has stood the test of time. Other friends have spent $30,000 for a ring, $7,000 on a dress and a feast that would give a State Dinner at The White House a run for our tax dollars money and yet nearly all of those “events” ended in divorce court. The fact that my parents honored God, each other and are together today has given my siblings and I great comfort to chase our dreams because of the security of their love for each other and us. We have great confidence in life due to the consistency of my parents relationship, love for us and God’s eternal care for all.
Today, I would like to thank God for giving me parents who stood together, played by the rules, stuck it out when it was easier to throw in a towel and they have my utmost respect, appreciation and love. Marriage is a sacred institutition ordained of God, regulated by His Commandments and blessed by our Lord Jesus Christ. Without question, I am a better person because of my parents and their union and when I think of “success” I don’t think of corporations, clout or cash but two folks from humble beginnings who realized that love is not just for a day but with God’s great grace can and still be for a life time.
Happy Anniversary Mom & Dad. Happy Birthday Mom and God blessed us good with great parents like you. Wishing you many more in the days to come. Blessings on you today and all your tomorrow’s.
Frank & Grammy Winner Andrae Crouch
Since the passing of Michael Jackson last week countless stories have broke and been broadcasted around the Globe. Some true, others speculation, most exaggeration but God only knows what is fact and reality. One story that has surfaced is that Grammy Winner Andrae Crouch met Michael weeks before his death in his rented mansion in California. It is true that they met, talked about Gospel songs and Michael was curious to learn of the Holy Spirit and anointing that comes from folks that have a personal relationship with the Lord. Recently, I read in several accounts that they prayed together but God only knows if Michael trusted Christ as his personal Savior before breathing his last.
From my last post, it is evident that my prayer along with multiplied millions of others hope that Michael Jackson accepted Jesus before departing Earth. It has been said: BIBLE is “Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth.” May we all ponder with greater clarity and urgency that the world is watching our every move for those of us who are Christ followers (Christians). No one knows when those in our presence will die. The fact is we don’t even know when our time is up to stand before Almighty God. One thing that has haunted the beloved Evangelist Billy Graham for nearly five decades is when President John F. Kennedy phoned Dr Graham and asked him to come to the White House. The President (whom was Catholic) had some questions about the “Second Coming” for the Protestant Preacher and renown evangelist.
Dr Graham had been struggling with a bad cold and kindly asked the “Commander in Chief” if it would be possible to reschedule and they talk about spiritual matters at another time. Dr. Graham never dreamt that it would be his last chance to speak with the world’s most powerful person on the planet because shortly after JFK, was shot to death in downtown Dallas. As Christians, I agree that we need to “sow seeds” and be “salt and light” while walking out our Christian faith daily for a lost and dying world whom is watching our every move. However, it is imperative that we be cognizant of the fact that since the world needs Jesus, we must be mindful that we just may be the only Bible that some will ever “read,” the only Jesus some will ever “see” and like never before we must do our best to lead the lost to the Lord.
It was said by a wise farmer: “You will never see a Harvest until you water your crops.” Sadly, the reason countless churches and Christians have seen very little fruit in leading their friends to Christ is because they haven’t lost sleep over the souls of their friends en route to Hell without Jesus. Question: When was the last time you lost sleep, crying and petitioning God in Heaven for the salvation of your lost friends souls?
The legendary General Booth, founder of the SALVATION ARMY had a passion to see souls saved. In its conception, the Salvation Army lived up to its name. It provided food, shelter and clothing to the destitute and its officers were in the “Lord’s Army” leading the “lost” to the Lord. A friendly reminder is that one is “lost” who has never trusted Christ to be their Sacrifice for sin and their Lord and Savior. Christ alone is the only way to eternal life and it is because of His death on the cross and His bodily resurrection that we have access to know Him intimately and as our Substitute. Because He died we can live for those trusting in Him.
Some of the younger officers employed with the Salvation Army were doing their best to win souls for Christ but with very little results. They wrote to their general at the national headquarters and asked him how he effortlessly saw scores come to the Savior. They asked his secret hoping to apply it in their personal lives. The General wrote back two words: “TRY TEARS.” Again, until we weep for lost souls we will never see the Harvest or “revival” we all say we want and need.
Friends, may we take our faith in Christ seriously. May we be about our “Father’s Business.” God had but one Son and He was an evangelist. The Bible is clear: “He that winneth souls is wise.” In sports circles, many believe “defense wins championships.” But in larger matters, I am convinced that “Offense builds the Kingdom.” As kids of the King, children of God and disciples of our Lord; may we die trying and live crying for the lost to be found in Christ before its eternally too late. No, we cannot reach everyone but each one can reach one. Souls are won - one at a time and for those of us in ministry, I rather be a “used car salesman” than a preacher who closes a sermon without inviting folks to trust Christ as Savior. Why? At least the salesman cares enough to ask you for the sale before you walk off his lot. Keep in mind, I am don’t evangelize because I am an evangelist but because Christ commands and compels all born-again believers to get off the sidelines and into the game for God’s glory. Evangelism is not a spectator sport but required for those whom call themselves saints. Evangelism is everything in ministry. When the Lord comes or calls us Home; may we all be busy “leading the lost to the Lord.”